Autism is Not A Curse

In today’s world, autism is no longer an unfamiliar word. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), one in every 31 children in the United States is diagnosed with autism spectrum disorder (ASD). This is not just a statistic—it’s a reflection of our reality. The persons impacted are not distant strangers; they are our sons and daughters, our brothers and sisters, our students, colleagues, and friends.

Yet, despite growing awareness, in many parts of the world—including across Africa—autism remains deeply misunderstood. In too many communities, families face these challenges in isolation. Children are kept from school, hidden from neighbors, or labeled with names that strip them of their dignity.

In Urban cities and villages, the stigma runs deep. Children and adults on the spectrum are wrongly described as cursed, victims of spiritual affliction, or blamed for ancestral wrongs. Out of desperation, some are taken to spiritual homes or traditional healers for “deliverance.” Others are abandoned, institutionalised, or left without the support they deserve. These experiences are not just painful—they are unjust.

Let me say this clearly and from the heart: autism is not a curse. It is not witchcraft. It is not a punishment. It is a neurological and developmental condition that affects how someone experiences the world, communicates, and relates with others.

People with autism may engage with the world differently. They might interpret sounds, sights, emotions, or social cues in unique ways. But these differences do not diminish their worth. They do not make them any less human. They remind us that the human brain is beautifully diverse—and this diversity, often called neurodiversity, is something to be honored, not feared.

Too often, society looks at autism through a lens of limitation. But what if we chose to see potential instead? What if we focused on abilities instead of disabilities?

We must begin to speak about autism using language that uplifts, not labels. Children and adults with Autism, have talents, gifts, and dreams. When nurtured in the right environment—with understanding, support, and love—they can and do thrive.

And let us not simply respond with pity. Some of the most creative, brilliant, and visionary minds in our world today are on the autism spectrum. From celebrated actors and tech innovators to professors, athletes, DJs, and entrepreneurs—autistic individuals are contributing meaningfully to every field imaginable.

As the CEO at Autism Ally, a US based organization, now operating under The UpLyft Group, my team and I have seen firsthand what’s possible when individuals on the spectrum are given a chance. I’ve met children once considered “unreachable” who now communicate through music. Teens who build apps, mix Afrobeat tracks, or play classical piano despite visual impairments. Parents who once felt alone but now thrive in supportive communities. Caregivers who discover renewed purpose through peer mentoring.

Raising a child with autism does come with challenges, but no parent should have to face it alone. That’s why I advocate for early intervention, the creation of support groups, and working with qualified providers. One of our key partners, Renoxx Caregivers Inc, is one of the largest licensed home and community-based service providers in Washington DC, Maryland, and Virginia—offering care rooted in respect, compassion, and excellence.

As Autism Speaks once declared, “Autism is not a tragedy. Ignorance is.” That truth continues to guide our work.

In the words of Dr. Andrew Kenndy, “our communities are stronger when everyone—regardless of ability—is seen, heard, and supported.” I couldn’t agree more.

Week after week, I hear stories on my BNS podcast—stories of hope, resilience, and transformation. They serve as reminders that love, patience, and the right support can turn pain into purpose.

So, here is my heartfelt call to action:

Let us embrace, not exclude.

Let us look for what brings the person’s joy, not just what they struggle with.

Let us nurture strengths—whether in art, music, technology, sports, or storytelling.

Let us build communities that uplift rather than isolate. Look for support now!

If you’re a parent, caregiver, teacher, or ally—know this: you are not alone. Join us at @Autism Ally, virtually or in person.

Through our UpLyft programs, we offer mentorship, guidance, and most importantly, a community that understands.

Every child deserves to be seen, not hidden. Celebrated, not shamed.
Let’s move past the myths and embrace the meaning.
Let’s replace superstition with science—and fear with freedom.
Let’s create a world where every neurodivergent person can thrive, dream, and be loved for who they truly are.

Autism is not a curse. It is a different ability. It is a part of the human story. And it deserves to be told with dignity and compassion regardless of the demographics or social environment.

Ike Ogbuebile is the CEO of AutismAlly and the convener of the UpLyft Awards