Ben Baldwin-Anyasodo: Sharing Happiness  As A Psychotherapist

Ben Baldwin-Anyasodi is a multidisciplinary professional and patented scientist. While he is a licensed Behavioural Change Expert/Therapist, Clinical Hypno-psychotherapist, and Research Scientist, Chiddie is a certified Relationship Coach, luxury Matchmaker and Engineer.

He is also a clinical hypno-psychotherapist and Behavioural Change/Life Coach, whose area of work focuses mainly on studying human behaviour at different levels  – micro and macro.

As a behavioural change expert, his work mainly focuses on the neurological/cognition aspects of behaviour and behavioural change. Due to how quickly Ben helps people achieve that remarkable mindset shift, he is often described as ‘The Mind Bender”.

Indeed, the scientist enjoys helping people make the connection between different life events and how to break free from retrogressive patterns. Ben believes success can easily be achieved in life through understanding the psychological dynamics involved and making a deep paradigm shift in a simple way.

He has worked with a lot of top leaders, top management, top performers and Coaches.
Ben deeply believes that everyone has a good shot at success in life, because you deserve it!

As a co-founder of Chotayah, a platform that offers relationship coaching and matchmaking, he continues to passionately shell out happiness among singles who seek to find their perfect companions across the nation.

With Chotayah in place, many uphold his expertise as a life-changing exploration of passion, self-discovery, and love that equips each prospect to step into his absolute best self.

Together, the co-founders leverage their scientific expertise and peerless insight to matchmake powerful and accomplished African expats with partners who suit them perfectly.

Indeed, Anyasodo has a proven track record of creating head-turning power couples, who augment each others’ successes. Chotayah’s bespoke and exquisite services are said to be tailored to each client’s desires and challenges. “We focus on putting the seeker back in complete control of finding his or her ideal mate,” says Anyasodo.

Today, Chotayah has become the most trusted name in high-profile African matches and marriages. Ben and Chiddie are both successful professionals living in the UK.

In Ben’s words, his childhood experience contributed to who he is today. “As a child, I always wondered what it is that drives people to behave the way they did. My main curiosity was with adults – because many times, I simply saw a child in a big body and it confused and intrigued me at the same time.”

On the inspiration behind Chotaya, Ben emphasised, “Both my wife and I have a passion for helping people. We also got fed up with some of the myths and wrong ideas people have about relationships. We both believe that relationships are more intentional than incidental.

“We realise that people haven’t really been taught how to be their authentic selves in a relationship. We have a beautiful marriage and we know that’s not because we are special but because we put the effort first in working on our individual mindsets.”

This burning desire, according to the life coach, birthed the thoughts of helping people do the same. They believed that everyone deserved the relationship he or she desired. “What magic it is when two wholesome people get together,” he expressed gleefully.

He swiftly switched to his partner and wife, Chiddie while listing the ingredients for a successful relationship. “I’d say  authenticity, commitment and the willingness to look inwards. Prioritise your own inner healing and you’d show up better in your relationship.

“Marriage is a contract, which means there are terms and conditions – terms of engagement, which both of you must create and commit to. Marriage is also about vulnerability. It should be that place where you can show your vulnerability without the fear of being judged, rejected or criticised,”he clarified. “Which means you must be willing to provide the same level of acceptance and safety for your spouse. In a healthy marriage, you have no need to be who you are not.”

The research scientist, therefore, encouraged young men and women seeking for their partners. “You deserve love. So start by understanding what you want, why you want it and what changes you’d need to have happen in you (your mindset, behaviours among others) for you to be the best version of you in the love you seek. “