Ugo Aliogo
The author of ‘The Boys With The Happy Feet Dance’, Bode Abifarin, has shed light on Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) and Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) in children, focusing on navigating these challenges and fostering resilience.
In her new book, she chronicles the remarkable journey of a mother’s unwavering dedication to her twin boys- Ethan and Nathan-both on the spectrum, and the narrative unfolds from both the children’s and their mother’s viewpoints, weaving a tapestry of experiences.
Speaking at the event launch in Lagos, Abifarin emphasised that the book is more than just an autism story, adding that it is a testament to the enduring power of love, faith, and the unbreakable bond between a mother and her children.
She explained that the book offers valuable insights for parents navigating the autism spectrum with their wards, while simultaneously warming the hearts of all readers. Attendees at the event were deeply moved by the poignant journey shared in the book.
According to her, “Part one, narrated by the boys themselves, takes readers on a journey through their world. They describe the joy of playing the piano, the thrill of learning to swim, and the confusion they face with occasional reactions to their outbursts. Their innocent voices paint a picture of resilience, determination, and love of life that shines brightly despite challenges.
“Part two, written by the mother, delves into the depths of her unwavering love and faith. She shares her experiences fostering patience, her unwavering belief in God for strength, and how her strong Christian faith provides a guiding light.”
Abifarin averred that her memoir aims to not only inspire other parents but also foster empathy and understanding for children on the spectrum.
In a heartfelt quote, she remarked that the book is a story of resilience, care, and nurturing, adding that it is about the love “we pour into our children, watering the soil that is their growth.
“Through relentless research and collaboration with therapists, Ethan and Nathan’s mother equipped them with essential life skills. Beneficial diets, sports, and indoor activities were incorporated into their routines. Today, both boys have made significant progress on their journey to social integration, defying expectations and embracing their individuality.”
Abifarin also highlighted the importance of early diagnosis, lamenting that many children remain undiagnosed, as she stressed the need for increased awareness, support, and resources for parents and families.
The book has garnered praise for its multifaceted approach.
The reviewer, Lola Esan, described it as pure love inspiration, knowledge, and emotion, and a timeless gift to humanity.
Esan further explained its significance as a source of comfort and understanding for families navigating similar challenges.
