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24 Sep 2012

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By Magnus Onyibe

Former prime minister of Canada, Kim Campbell, lost her position in 1993 after she made snide remarks during re-election campaign about her opponent, John Chretien’s deformed mouth which was as a result of Bell’s Palsy disease which he suffered when he was young. In the USA, first lady, Michelle Obama’s approval rating ranks only next to that of former US President Bill Clinton who is currently the most popular and respected former president alive. While Michelle’s popularity lies in her humanity and simplicity reflected in her middle class values which represent the 'American dream' of becoming great from humble beginnings is rubbing off positively on her husband’s fortunes in the forthcoming polls, the uncharitable and insensitive comment about an opponent cost Campbell her exalted job as prime minister of Canada.


Now, l went into the above preamble to highlight the critical role that health issues could play in the life of public servants and the position that first ladies occupy in the political and private lives of those who lead or aspire to lead us.


Uncharacteristic of the African spirit of being our brother’s keeper, the first lady of Nigeria, Patience Jonathan, who was always wooing and cajoling Nigerians to support her husband in the arduous task of governance has remained the butt of many jokes in the social media even while in the hospital in far away Germany, which is a travesty. In a true African spirit, l believe the hearts of men and women of goodwill go out to her for speedy recovery.


Surely, this is not the first time that an ailing occupant of Aso Rock Villa would be parodied instead of empathised within the social media as late President Umaru Musa Ya'Adua was a victim. Such irreverent attitude towards the ill was the justification for the article 'Killing President Yar'Adua ' which l wrote and published in major national daily newspapers in the wee days of his tenure. In the late Yar’Adua’s case as it is in the present situation with Patience, the media and by extension Nigerians were not properly apprised of the status of their president and in this instance their first lady which perhaps explains the apparent public apathy.


Comparatively, former military president, Ibrahim Babangida, while in Aso Rock had suffered from what was referred to as 'radiculopathy' a sort of foot disease for which there was outpouring of sympathy from Nigerians when he was hospitalised in Germany. It seems to me that the difference between IBB’s good fortune of receiving outpouring of love and the late Yar'Adua and Patience’s experience of a seeming cold shoulder is poor communication or lack of it because Duro Onabule, Babangida’s image maker at that time, duly informed Nigerians of the head of state’s ailment and updated them constantly on how he was responding to treatment. On the contrary, Patience’s hospitalisation and the nature of her ailment have been shrouded in secrecy as neither the presidential spokesman nor Patience’s media aide has cleared the foggy air surrounding her infirmity.


One of the most loved women in the world, Queen Elizabeth II of England, recently celebrated her 75th year as queen and leader of the Commonwealth without her husband, Prince Philip, the Duke of Edinburgh, who was hospitalised at that time. Britons showered their queen with love and saved some for her husband whom they were informed upfront of his ill health. Just before the recently concluded summer Olympics in London, the Duke took ill again compelling the queen to attend the opening and closing ceremonies without her beau and as they were updated daily, Britons once again sent their love to him via flowers that he received in hospital.

So you may ask, why such an approach if successfully applied in Nigeria and the UK has become so unattractive to present Aso Rock ‘apparachik’? Unlike Caucasians, Asians or people in the socially and economically advanced societies, Africans revere the dead and empathise with the infirm and weak either because as traditionalists, we worship deities which are essentially dead ancestors or as people of faith, we have the vision of the good Samaritan who helped the weak as we are reminded of the Bible stories of pilgrims who encountered angels disguised as infirm needing help. For these and many other reasons, Africans and indeed Nigerians give alms to the infirm and pray for the sick freely in consonance with the biblical injunction 'be your brother's keeper'.


With such an African disposition, I experienced a rude culture shock while attempting to help a professor who is a paraplegic into an elevator when l was studying for a master’s degree at the Fletcher School of Law and Diplomacy, Medford, Massachusetts, USA. Professor Swatskowski rejected my help by telling me in clear terms to steer clear of his path because he was capable of doing whatever he wanted to accomplish without help. Little did l know then that the disabled in the western society preferred to prove that there is ability in disability through independence as opposed to the pity we have for them and a justification for the handouts we give or toss at them when accosted on the roads or places of worship. As such, Patience should be enjoying our sympathy and goodwill in this period of ill health irrespective of the communication gap in Aso Rock that may be eliciting negative vibes and angst against her.


Before she dropped out of the public scene, she had successfully mobilised wives of African heads of state to Abuja where a foundation for an edifice in their honour was laid. Prior to the Abuja gathering, she had rallied Nigerian women in government and spouses of top officials in authority to Uyo, Akwa Ibom State where she charged them not to demure from vying and fighting for the topmost positions in government or private sectors of Nigerian economy.


She has been 'walking the talk' because under her watch, the Federal Executive Council (FEC) has recorded the highest number of women holding some of the most strategic portfolios ranging from Finance, Petroleum, Education, Aviation, Housing, Communications, Environment and of course Women Affairs. Additionally, women are also junior ministers in Defence, the FCT and Foreign Affairs bringing the total number to 11 female ministers.


Patience does not claim to speak English language like the Queen of England because it is not her mother tongue and she does not pretend to possess the wisdom of Socrates because she was just a school teacher before divine forces propelled her husband to the dizzying heights of Aso Rock where as a good housewife she keeps our president company, but what both her friends and foes cannot deny is that she is passionate about the cause of women and proud of her humble beginning. Some Nigerians are offended by her recent elevation to the rank of permanent secretary in Bayelsa State civil service, arguing that she does not merit it. Again, people are not taking into cognisance the fact that she was a school teacher in Rivers State from where she transferred her service to Bayelsa State about 14 years ago when her husband was elected deputy governor, then governor, later vice-president and now president.


Being on leave of absence or on secondment is not an anathema in the civil service of our country, so allegations that she has not been at her duty post as a teacher are untenable because as the wife of a deputy governor, governor, vice-president and president in these past 14 years, she has been rendering more strategic service to this nation than as a school teacher. At this critical time of constitution review by the National Assembly, the controversies thrown up by her civil service job as opposed to public service duties should be resolved through the creation of well defined constitutional roles for our first ladies. If that happens, she would have been the catalyst for another landmark accomplishment for the fairer sex in Nigeria.


Strikingly, when Franklin Roosevelt was elected to the presidency of USA (1933-1945), Eleanor, his wife, was reluctant in assuming the role of first lady but she proved herself to be a good innovator when she became the first activist-first lady by calling press conferences and keeping the public up to date on government policies, in particular," the new deal". She is also on record to have persuaded her husband to create the National Youth Administration (NYA) which provided financial aid to students and job training to young men and women amongst other great accomplishments.
Mr. Onyibe, a development strategist and futurologist, writes from Abuja.

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  • What is the point of this article?

    From: Nemesis

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • Well said. But also need to consier the insincerity on the part of govt. Why lie about her health? Is it not human to fall ill? Most of the funny comments people are making is as a of stupid lies from govt. I do think the comments about her can shape the outcome of any election. Michelle and Patience are two different people. No basis for comparison. The determining factor will be performance. Lets forget sentiments.

    From: Doyin

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • As far as I concerned, you have not said anything.

    From: Sali

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • This woman was a teacher?
    No wonder our educational system is in . . .
    Is the reason to evident to all?

    From: Gidi

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • A pedestrian attempt at burnishing the image of the First Lady!

    From: romseea

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • Bros, Singing the praises of Dame Patience Jonathan!! Please chop your money and leave us alone. A man as intelligent as yourself should not sell yourself short. You can do more than showering undeserved encomiums on the first lady.

    From: Concerned 9ja Boy

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • THISDAY deserves better Backpage than this !!... The official line is that the first Lady is on "vacation" and Nigerians abide by what the Aso Villa spin doctors said until they push out something new...Why are you taking panadol for another person's headache?

    From: Yommi

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • I couldn't agree more with the earlier commentaries on your needless article. For one, it is riddled with too many inaccuracies. For example, Queen Elizabeth celebrated her 60th year on the throne and not 75th! She is only 86years old! If indeed the object of your article is a job in Patience Jonathan's team, then surely, there are better ways to go about it rather than insulting our sensibilities.

    From: Odiri C. Oghre

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • What exactly are you saying? You have mixed up too many things!

    From: Mobolaji

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • Sir you have not said anything, who told you that Dame is sick?

    From: Seenyie

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • I struggled through poor network connection to read ThisDay back page on this Monday, only to read this Nursery Rhyme. This is not fit for a serious column, please. Editor take note.

    From: Brother SD

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • Super perm-sec Patience Jonathan surely deserves our sympathy and goodwill in this period of ill health irrespective of the communication gap in Aso Rock that may be eliciting negative vibes and angst against her.

    From: U George-Nkemnacho

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • Good piece Mr Onyibe!but point of correction on the queen Elizabeth 2nd who has spent 60yrs on the throne not 75yrs as you wrote.what she celebrated this year was Diamond jubilee--60.thanks

    From: Mr Chukwuemeka Onubogu

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • Who is this guy?

    From: remixe

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • this guys is asking for for constitutional regonistion for the first lady, he was making a good point in the start of the article, by calling for for empathy for her, but he just bungle it later with praise singing,this is shameful

    From: ade

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • So it is Patience walking the talk! Not President Jonathan implementing PDP policy of 30% or 40% of positions for women. Why do you guys lie so glibly? And she dropped out of sight. Really? When Yaradua told us he was sick, what was the story after that - brain dead, walking dead etc? DId you write this type of article. Hypocrisy!!!

    From: Tanko Yusuf

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • Magnus, I thought you already have a job. What is this all about? Thisday must save us the agony of reading aimless articles like this one

    From: Park

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • I think thisday can solicite for backpage articles if it's lacking, as there are many brialliant young Nigerians with opinions that counts, as demonstrated by El rufais back page opportunity to young writers. This article in particular is a waste, for the simple fact that in his bid to play safe, the writer makes no sense! If the writer (for reasons best known to him) wants to song praise the first lady, should be bold to go all the way! Quit the diplomacy! Besides what is the job of Doyin and Reuben or her press person for that matter.

    From: Austin Abu

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • Are we expecting a second part of this piece? I don't believe it has been concluded because I cannot pick anything out of it.

    From: Nelson from PH

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • Bros, I understand you have a right to your opinion, but your opinion as expressed in this write up makes it hard to believe you were not paid for it. When sahara reporters broke the news that Madam had food poisoning and had been rushed to Germany, uncle Reuben said it wasn't so and she only went on vacation to rest. Now its clear that was not true, so where is the place for sympathy in all the lies. A more important concern, now that we know she is ill, is why she is not been treated in Abuja (or anywhere in Nigeria for that matter)? Are Nigerian Doctors not good enough for our first family? If she needed specialists, is it not better to fly in the specialist, who can then attend to other Nigerian patients while they are at it? Please ask uncle Reuben and uncle Okupe if you need help to answer these questions.

    From: Kayode

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • LOOK FOR SOMETHING ELSE TO WRITE.

    From: Mr. E. Daniel

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • I need to improve on my knowledge of the English language as i dont even understand the theme of your write up.

    From: jide

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • *still scratching my head* I don't get the point of this article!

    From: Yinka

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • na wa; had the first lady headed to the hospital that all others - you know, the "little people" - head to, a crowd would have gathered under her hospital window wishing her well. Instead, for these feckless pharaohs it's onto a jet plane straight out of the place! Nigerians live in an unofficial kingdom where when the King farts, the peasants are asked to clap!

    From: BarBeachBoy

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • How many people would go to lgbobi hospital if they have the means to see the best doctors in Johns Hopkins university hospital,USA?The reality is that many people from the UK go to the USA to seek medical care just as some Americans go to Germany and many Africans head for India for the same purpose.The world has become a global village and people go to specialists in areas of comparative advantage for expert care or lower cost.The point about whether the queen celebrated 60 or 75 is needless because it is not the core issue and Eleanor Rooselvet was mentioned to buttress the point that activism by first ladies is not an uncommon activity in govt houses.l think the author wanted to put the matter on the front burner and thus prod the authorities into being upfront with the first lady's health condition which was achieved when president Jonathan visited his wife in the hospital in Germany on his way to NY for the UN general assembly a few days ago.Where is the human kindness that Africans and indeed Nigerians are known for,Why is it that it is only anti govt rhetorics that excite us and why do armchair critics not wonder why is it that the so called superstars who steer up negative sentiments against govt on the back page of Thisday do not have principles as they start pouring invectives on govt only when they are not favoured by govt of the day?In other words were they people oriented when they occupied public office and what difference did they make apart from feathering their nests?The writer indicated that he had written a similar article for Yar'Adua when he was ill so he is pretty consistent.The suspicion by most Nigerians that everybody in Nigeria do things for less than altruistic reasons has become so manic and unfortunately it is reinforced by the monumental corruption scandals that citizens are regaled with on a daily basis hence the current lack of trust manifesting as bare faced anger against authorities.This perhaps explains the reason some have referred to what we are practicing in Nigeria as populism,not democracy because we tend to hail only people that play to the gallery instead of looking beyond the headlines for the people that tend to set the agenda for a healthy national discuss which l believe the article was aiming to achieve and it has accomplished to a some extent considering the comments it has elicited.You know what,a follow up article suggesting that Nigerians have been drained of milk of human kindness due to hunger and starvation in the land would be a nice follow if anybody feels that way.

    From: Mustafa

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • I believe the version published in Thisday might have been edited for space.Imread a more comprehensive version in Vanguard on monday and Tuesday.Some of the gaps in the Thisday version were covered.

    From: Ogadi

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • kkkk

    From: tunde

    Posted: 8 months ago

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  • bro, you just wasted this back page for nothing. Still cant get what you saying.

    From: Jabi

    Posted: 7 months ago

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  • bond outright balderdash

    From: luter

    Posted: 7 months ago

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